Ms. Sebrina and Ms. Maya do an amazing job each day to encourage the
children to engage in open center play with their peers. Please read
the article below on the importance of play! It may look like it's just
fun but the kids are building a foundation for so many skills needed
later in their education and life in general!
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Play is the business of childhood, allowing your child free rein to
experiment with the world around him and the emotional world inside him,
says Linda Acredolo, professor of psychology at the University of
California at Davis and coauthor of
Baby Signs: How to Talk With Your Baby Before Your Baby Can Talk and
Baby Minds: Brain-Building Games Your Baby Will Love.
While
it may look like mere child's play to you, there's a lot of work —
problem solving, skill building, overcoming physical and mental
challenges — going on behind the scenes. Here are some of the things
your child is experiencing and learning, along with ideas on how you can
help boost the benefits of his play.
Play builds the imagination
Pretending,
or imaginative play, is one of the cornerstones of a young child's
world. Kids begin demonstrating this behavior around the age of 2. Almost
anything can spur your child's imagination, including everyday objects.
This is because he uses them as symbols, says Acredolo: He's learning
that one thing can stand for other things. Using his new ability to
pretend, he can transform a block of wood into a boat, a few pots and
pans into a drum set.
Everyday
objects aren't the only things that are transformed in your child's
make-believe world. So are the roles he assumes in his play.
He'll
move from superhero to daddy to police officer with ease. By
experimenting with diverse jobs and identities, he's able to explore a
variety of scenarios and outcomes. Sometimes the stories he acts out
reflect issues he's struggling to understand, says Patty Wipfler,
founder and director of
Hand in Hand
in Palo Alto, California, a nonprofit organization that helps parents
and childcare professionals develop listening, childrearing, and
leadership skills.
If he's coming to terms with a new sibling, for
example, he may incorporate a lot of nurturing behavior into his play,
mimicking your interaction with his new brother or sister. Imaginative
play gives your child a sense of control as he interprets the dramas of
everyday life and practices the rules of social behavior.
How you can encourage imaginative play:
Keep a box of everyday items that your child can use during pretend
play. Kid versions of adult objects, such as play telephones and plastic
dishes, help facilitate role playing, and open-ended objects (toys that
can have more than one use), such as colored blocks, stretch the
imagination with unlimited possibilities.
Play promotes social skills
As
toddlers, children play side by side without obvious communication
(this is called parallel play). During the preschool years, they start
to interact with each other by creating complex story lines together.
As
they do this, they learn to negotiate, cooperate, and share (though
some kids don't master the art of sharing until they're 4 to 6 years
old). When children disagree about who gets to be the daddy or who will
wear the purple dress, they're actually developing important social
skills, says Sara Wilford, director of the Art of Teaching Graduate
Program at Sarah Lawrence College in Bronxville, New York.
How you can boost social play: Once your child settles into preschool, he'll find playmates there. But he'll need
your help to extend those relationships outside of school.
The easiest way to build newfound friendships is to schedule
playdates
or set up a play group for your child and his friends. Get the ball
rolling by introducing games or activities and then unobtrusively
monitor the children's behavior and progress. After the playdate, you'll
know which social skills your child is mastering (sharing, cooperating,
or being assertive, for example) and which he may need some help with.
Play advances physical development
Different
types of physical play help develop different skills: For example,
skipping takes balance, climbing monkey bars builds strength, and sports
activities involve coordination. Large motor skills, such as running,
throwing, and pedaling, improve first, but fine motor skills aren't far
behind. A 3-year-old carefully stacking blocks into towers is not only
learning about gravity and balance but also developing hand-eye
coordination.
And the dexterity your child develops during play
carries over into everyday life:
After some practice, a 3-year-old will
be able to help dress and feed himself, which gives him a sense of
independence.
There's a nonphysical benefit of physical play too:
It helps kids work through stress and crankiness. In fact, without
adequate time for active play, your child may become grumpy or tense
(not to mention possibly obese).
How you can promote physical play:
The best way to get your child moving is to set a good example. This
starts at home by engaging in physical activities rather than sedentary
ones such as watching TV.
Indoors, you can play hide-and-seek,
toss beanbags, or play some danceable music. Outdoors, build a castle in
the sandbox, kick a soccer ball back and forth, ride your bike/tricycle
together.
Play helps kids work through emotions
Long
before children can express their feelings in words, they express them
through physical play, storytelling, art, and other activities. When
children have experiences that are hurtful or hard to understand, they
review those experiences again and again through play.
For
example, says Wipfler, if your child is pushed or has something snatched
away from him at school, he may not understand what just happened. If,
the next day, you're playing with him and he aggressively pushes you, he
may be trying to work out what he experienced the day before.
How you can help:
During play, your child will expose little bits of behavior he needs
guidance with or doesn't understand. You can respond in kind, mimicking
the right type of response. And try to get your child to laugh, which
will help ease tension, Wipfler says.
Your role when playing with your child
Wipfler
says it's helpful to allow your child to lead during play. "Let your
child determine what to do and how to do it within the limits of safety
and time constraints," she says. "This lets him try out his judgment and
allows him to show you what he's delighted in."
Join in your
child's play, but only when invited to do so. As he lets you into his
world of make-believe, give him complete control. In real life, you may
be in charge, but this is
his world.
The attention you
show your child when you play together is key to building his
self-esteem, says Wilford. For example, when you pretend along with him,
you're showing him that you accept his make-believe world, that
something he's interested in is fun and important to you, too
How Pretend Play Helps Children Learn
Pretending is important in child development. Through pretend play:
- Children learn about themselves and the world.
Dramatic play experiences are some of the first ways children learn
about their likes and dislikes, their interests, and their abilities.
They experiment with role playing and work to make sense out of what
they’ve observed. Just watch children playing with dolls to see examples
of this. Dolls often become versions of the child himself and are a
safe way for children to express new ideas and feelings.
- Children work out confusing, scary, or new life issues.
Have you ever witnessed children pretending to visit the doctor? One
child dutifully holds the mock stethoscope as the others line up for a
check-up. More often than not someone gets ‘shots’. This is a child’s
way of exploring an experience that is common and sometimes confusing or
scary. Through these role plays, children become more comfortable and
prepared for life events in a safe way. Children often use pretend play
to work out more personal challenging life events too, whether it is
coping with an illness in the family, the absence of a parent or
divorce, or a house fire.
- Children develop important complex social and higher order thinking skills.
Pretend play is much more than simple play activities; it requires
advanced thinking strategies, communication, and social skills. Through
pretend play, children learn to do things like negotiate, consider
others’ perspectives, transfer knowledge from one situation to another,
delay gratification, balance their own ideas with others, develop a plan
and act on it, explore symbolism, express and listen to thoughts and
ideas, assign tasks and roles, and synthesize different information and
ideas. In this creative play description, we could just as easily be
describing the skills needed to successfully manage a work project for
an adult as describing children’s pretend play.
- Children cultivate social and emotional intelligence.
How we interact with others is key to our lifelong success and
happiness. Knowing how to read social cues, recognize and regulate
emotions, negotiate and take turns, and engage in a long-term activity
that is mutually beneficial are no easy tasks. There is no substitute
for creative and imaginative play when it comes to teaching and
enhancing these abilities in children.
- Children synthesize knowledge and skills.
Because learning and child development doesn’t happen in discrete
pockets of time or during isolated activities, children need
opportunities to blend their skills and knowledge together. Pretend play
is an ideal way to do this. Think of children playing ‘grocery’ store.
They sort by attributes as they group similar foods in sections of the
store, use math concepts to tabulate amounts as they determine prices
and calculate grocery bills, use writing to communicate by making signs,
experiment with shapes and weights as they organize the store, work
collaboratively as they assign roles and play together, and much more.
- See more at:
http://www.brighthorizons.com/family-resources/e-family-news/2013-importance-of-pretend-play-in-child-development/#sthash.495PUyAI.dpuf
How Pretend Play Helps Children Learn
Pretending is important in child development. Through pretend play:
- Children learn about themselves and the world.
Dramatic play experiences are some of the first ways children learn
about their likes and dislikes, their interests, and their abilities.
They experiment with role playing and work to make sense out of what
they’ve observed. Just watch children playing with dolls to see examples
of this. Dolls often become versions of the child himself and are a
safe way for children to express new ideas and feelings.
- Children work out confusing, scary, or new life issues.
Have you ever witnessed children pretending to visit the doctor? One
child dutifully holds the mock stethoscope as the others line up for a
check-up. More often than not someone gets ‘shots’. This is a child’s
way of exploring an experience that is common and sometimes confusing or
scary. Through these role plays, children become more comfortable and
prepared for life events in a safe way. Children often use pretend play
to work out more personal challenging life events too, whether it is
coping with an illness in the family, the absence of a parent or
divorce, or a house fire.
- Children develop important complex social and higher order thinking skills.
Pretend play is much more than simple play activities; it requires
advanced thinking strategies, communication, and social skills. Through
pretend play, children learn to do things like negotiate, consider
others’ perspectives, transfer knowledge from one situation to another,
delay gratification, balance their own ideas with others, develop a plan
and act on it, explore symbolism, express and listen to thoughts and
ideas, assign tasks and roles, and synthesize different information and
ideas. In this creative play description, we could just as easily be
describing the skills needed to successfully manage a work project for
an adult as describing children’s pretend play.
- Children cultivate social and emotional intelligence.
How we interact with others is key to our lifelong success and
happiness. Knowing how to read social cues, recognize and regulate
emotions, negotiate and take turns, and engage in a long-term activity
that is mutually beneficial are no easy tasks. There is no substitute
for creative and imaginative play when it comes to teaching and
enhancing these abilities in children.
- Children synthesize knowledge and skills.
Because learning and child development doesn’t happen in discrete
pockets of time or during isolated activities, children need
opportunities to blend their skills and knowledge together. Pretend play
is an ideal way to do this. Think of children playing ‘grocery’ store.
They sort by attributes as they group similar foods in sections of the
store, use math concepts to tabulate amounts as they determine prices
and calculate grocery bills, use writing to communicate by making signs,
experiment with shapes and weights as they organize the store, work
collaboratively as they assign roles and play together, and much more.
- See more at:
http://www.brighthorizons.com/family-resources/e-family-news/2013-importance-of-pretend-play-in-child-development/#sthash.495PUyAI.dpuf
How Pretend Play Helps Children Learn
Pretending is important in child development. Through pretend play:
- Children learn about themselves and the world.
Dramatic play experiences are some of the first ways children learn
about their likes and dislikes, their interests, and their abilities.
They experiment with role playing and work to make sense out of what
they’ve observed. Just watch children playing with dolls to see examples
of this. Dolls often become versions of the child himself and are a
safe way for children to express new ideas and feelings.
- Children work out confusing, scary, or new life issues.
Have you ever witnessed children pretending to visit the doctor? One
child dutifully holds the mock stethoscope as the others line up for a
check-up. More often than not someone gets ‘shots’. This is a child’s
way of exploring an experience that is common and sometimes confusing or
scary. Through these role plays, children become more comfortable and
prepared for life events in a safe way. Children often use pretend play
to work out more personal challenging life events too, whether it is
coping with an illness in the family, the absence of a parent or
divorce, or a house fire.
- Children develop important complex social and higher order thinking skills.
Pretend play is much more than simple play activities; it requires
advanced thinking strategies, communication, and social skills. Through
pretend play, children learn to do things like negotiate, consider
others’ perspectives, transfer knowledge from one situation to another,
delay gratification, balance their own ideas with others, develop a plan
and act on it, explore symbolism, express and listen to thoughts and
ideas, assign tasks and roles, and synthesize different information and
ideas. In this creative play description, we could just as easily be
describing the skills needed to successfully manage a work project for
an adult as describing children’s pretend play.
- Children cultivate social and emotional intelligence.
How we interact with others is key to our lifelong success and
happiness. Knowing how to read social cues, recognize and regulate
emotions, negotiate and take turns, and engage in a long-term activity
that is mutually beneficial are no easy tasks. There is no substitute
for creative and imaginative play when it comes to teaching and
enhancing these abilities in children.
- Children synthesize knowledge and skills.
Because learning and child development doesn’t happen in discrete
pockets of time or during isolated activities, children need
opportunities to blend their skills and knowledge together. Pretend play
is an ideal way to do this. Think of children playing ‘grocery’ store.
They sort by attributes as they group similar foods in sections of the
store, use math concepts to tabulate amounts as they determine prices
and calculate grocery bills, use writing to communicate by making signs,
experiment with shapes and weights as they organize the store, work
collaboratively as they assign roles and play together, and much more.
- See more at:
http://www.brighthorizons.com/family-resources/e-family-news/2013-importance-of-pretend-play-in-child-development/#sthash.495PUyAI.dpuf
How Pretend Play Helps Children Learn
Pretending is important in child development. Through pretend play:
- Children learn about themselves and the world.
Dramatic play experiences are some of the first ways children learn
about their likes and dislikes, their interests, and their abilities.
They experiment with role playing and work to make sense out of what
they’ve observed. Just watch children playing with dolls to see examples
of this. Dolls often become versions of the child himself and are a
safe way for children to express new ideas and feelings.
- Children work out confusing, scary, or new life issues.
Have you ever witnessed children pretending to visit the doctor? One
child dutifully holds the mock stethoscope as the others line up for a
check-up. More often than not someone gets ‘shots’. This is a child’s
way of exploring an experience that is common and sometimes confusing or
scary. Through these role plays, children become more comfortable and
prepared for life events in a safe way. Children often use pretend play
to work out more personal challenging life events too, whether it is
coping with an illness in the family, the absence of a parent or
divorce, or a house fire.
- Children develop important complex social and higher order thinking skills.
Pretend play is much more than simple play activities; it requires
advanced thinking strategies, communication, and social skills. Through
pretend play, children learn to do things like negotiate, consider
others’ perspectives, transfer knowledge from one situation to another,
delay gratification, balance their own ideas with others, develop a plan
and act on it, explore symbolism, express and listen to thoughts and
ideas, assign tasks and roles, and synthesize different information and
ideas. In this creative play description, we could just as easily be
describing the skills needed to successfully manage a work project for
an adult as describing children’s pretend play.
- Children cultivate social and emotional intelligence.
How we interact with others is key to our lifelong success and
happiness. Knowing how to read social cues, recognize and regulate
emotions, negotiate and take turns, and engage in a long-term activity
that is mutually beneficial are no easy tasks. There is no substitute
for creative and imaginative play when it comes to teaching and
enhancing these abilities in children.
- Children synthesize knowledge and skills.
Because learning and child development doesn’t happen in discrete
pockets of time or during isolated activities, children need
opportunities to blend their skills and knowledge together. Pretend play
is an ideal way to do this. Think of children playing ‘grocery’ store.
They sort by attributes as they group similar foods in sections of the
store, use math concepts to tabulate amounts as they determine prices
and calculate grocery bills, use writing to communicate by making signs,
experiment with shapes and weights as they organize the store, work
collaboratively as they assign roles and play together, and much more.
- See more at:
http://www.brighthorizons.com/family-resources/e-family-news/2013-importance-of-pretend-play-in-child-development/#sthash.495PUyAI.dpuf
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While
children are playing in their centers, Ms. Sebrina can focus her
attention on a smaller group for fine motor/handwriting practice.
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